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THE SAVIOR SCHEMA 救世主模式
“Every time a man is being nice to you, he’soffering dick. That’s all it is. ‘Uh, can I get thatfor ya? How ’bout some dick? Can I help you with that? Can I help you with some dick? Do you need some dick?’ ” – Chris Rock
“每当一个男人对你好的时候，他都会献上迪克（是什么你知道的）。这就是全部。'嗯，我能给你弄点吗？'来点迪克怎么样？我能帮你吗？我能帮助你弄点迪克吗？你需要点迪克？'”——克里斯·洛克
The Savior Schema – the Beta male expectation of reciprocation of intimacy (usually sexual) for female problems solved.
救世主模式——这是挫男对解决女性问题的亲密关系（通常是性关系）的期望。
This is a learned/developed behavior that results from men’s natural push to deductively search for the most rational solution to a problem. It’s really a linear logic:
这是一种习得/发展的行为，源于男性自然地倾向于演绎性地寻找问题的最合理解决方案。这真的是一个线性逻辑：
I need sex + women have sex + I must discover what is required for me to get sex from women + I will perform/embody/identify with said requirements = woman will reciprocate with her sexual intimacy.
我需要性+女人有性+我必须发现我从女人那里获得性所需要的东西+我将执行/体现/认同女人所说的一切要求=女人将以她的性亲密作为回报。
Needless to say this is simplistic at best, but as is the root cause for most of men’s frustrations with women, men have a tendency to believe that women will respond as rationally as they themselves would in qualifying for her stated desires. The manosphere is full of men whocan tell you this simply isn’t the case for any number of reasons, but sadly they still think that women ought to live up to, and honor, their implied “agreement
不用说，这充其量是简单化的，但作为大多数男人对女人失望的根本原因，是男人倾向于相信女人会像他们自己一样理性地回应，满足她所表达的欲望。论坛里到处都是男人，他们可以告诉你，这根本不是事实，原因有很多，但可悲的是，他们仍然认为女人应该遵守她们的“约定”
The fundamental flaw of the Savior Schema (a.k.a. “Cap’n Save a Ho) is that it is essentially negotiated intimacy, and negotiated intimacy is never genuine. You can fix a woman’s flat tire, help her out of a financial jam, fix her a nice lasagna, give her the perfect shoulder to cry on, babysit her kids and listen to her drone on for hours on the phone, and she’ll still go fuck her outlaw biker boyfriend because her intimacy with him is genuine, unnegotiated, unobligated desire. She wants to have sex with him, she doesn’t owe him sex.
救世主模式的根本缺陷（又名“Cap'n Save a Ho”）这本质上是协商的亲密关系，而协商的亲密从来都不是真实的。你可以帮一个女人修车胎，帮她摆脱财务困境，给她做一碗漂亮的千层面，给她一个完美的肩膀让她哭，照顾她的孩子，听她在电话里开几个小时的无人机，而她仍然会去和她的亡命之徒骑自行车的男朋友sex，因为她和他的亲密关系是真诚的、不讨好的、不受约束的。她想和他sex，她不欠他任何东西，包括性。（很多挫男觉得，我做了这么多，我应该得到sex，我付出了，所以你欠我的）
What AFCs fail to understand is that all the financial, emotional, dependable support you could possibly offer a woman is no substitute for raw, unmitigated, chemical desire. Some of the most irresponsible, unreliable, poverty level washouts often get more sex than any dutiful, loyal AFC suffering from a Savior Schema, because there is no obligation.
挫男无法理解的是，她可能为女性提供的所有经济、情感和可靠的支持都不能替代原始的、未经缓解的化学欲望。一些最不负责任、最不可靠、最贫困的人往往比任何尽职尽责、忠诚的老实人更容易获得性生活，因为他们没有义务。
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发表于 2023-1-8 15:30:15